I realize that it’s been since June that there’s been a post so here’s a little update of what’s been going on.
We Still Have a House
Beyond the initial painting, not much work has gone into as summer came and we got ourselves busy. It was a combination of relatives coming through the place as they re-immigrated from Scotland to Canada (no they weren’t fleeing in the event of a Yes vote) and just the lack of desire to do any work when the weather is nice.
Plans are forming with regards to what we want to do with it. It needs a new kitchen, bathrooms, and rec room. All of which cost time and money which we don’t have at the money. In fact, since buying the place, we’re actually stretched a little thin. It’s temporary but it’s a pain and it prevents us from doing more with the place. What worries me is that we’ll get complacent and think, “Yes. The brown kitchen suits us fine.”
We Still Have a Child
He hasn’t moved out or anything as he just turned six. He may well be going to the MacKay Centre to help with his dyspraxia. Motor skills are still an issue for him but he’s a great reader and loves his books, especially comics. This bodes well for future movies we’ll be attending together. He may or may not be trick or treating as Star-Lord this year.
He also started a new school to go along with the new neighbourhood. It’s a bit different from his last one as I’d reckon our neighbourhood is maybe a peg lower on the economic scale than the last one but the people there seem pretty devoted so I’m generally happy with where he’s ended up.
He also learned a lot about Terry Fox this year and has continuously reminded us that he is dead now.
I Still Have a Job
It’s been about eight months since I started in the new place. I say I work in I.T. but I’m more of a link between the business and tech side of things. I’m for sure not bringing any special skills or knowledge to the table other than some general background from my previous department.
Anyway, it’s still interesting and I’m still learning but in general the vibe of the place is much preferable to my old place.
I’m Still Married
Two years and some, doing life in reverse: baby, wedding, house. Take that, society and your so-called “rules”.
I Still Get Migraines
And they suck,
I Still Have Panic Attacks
They also suck, but I don’t get them as much as I used to.
I Haven’t Been to New Brunswick Since March
Mainly because of a busy summer but also, because we travel standby, the flights have been too full. It may be March before we get back.
Yes, we were planning to move there and have tried to make this happen a number of times, including me interviewing with a Certain Large Company there just to get there. You know how Maritimers have a reputation for being laid back and funny? This Company is not that. Oy, those interviews were un.com.fort.able. I may have dodged a bullet there. I’m sure I’ve said that before but it bears repeating, I guess.
Anyhow, I have a colleague who moved back to NB for similar reasons to us (larger family and social network, cheaper cost of living) and is thinking she may have a mistake. Quebec has a lot of services that NB can’t provide, particularly when it comes to education.
So the new job and the decision to buy a house means we’re here for quite a while.
And there are worse places than Montreal for a kid to grow up in.